Category: Dating and Relationships
How is it dating for the first timeif you are visually impaired? Also how do you talk about it to your parents? Oh and another thing, how do you deal with the fact you parents were strict with you and they just gave you permision to date? Thanks.
wait, not sure i understand, you mean you never dated before because your parents didn't give you permission and now they said you can?
It's a tough one all right.
Be yourself, don't worry about being vi and don't try too hard it's a killer. Feck do I know that, above all, good luck so
Stevie.
you should always be yourself. about the parent thing you can do what i did, made sure things were going well. then i told them it did't go well. anyway that is a different storry.
Yah the thing is they were really strict and a year ago I got permision and now that I like someone, its really hard to tell them about it and espedally my Mom. Plus, I'm still adjusting.
I gather you lost your sight recently?? Now that your 21, you don't need anyones permission.. Be yourself, takes things slow, and just be careful. Hope everything goes well. B
Actually I've been blind all my life. I was born five months premature and I had a twin but he couldn't make it.
all you have to do is just be yourself. If she's the one, you might be able to figure it out. If she isn't well still, just be yourself. I know how you feel, it was hard to explaine the first time to my parents to.
Thanks my Dad know that I like him its just hard to tell my Mom. We'll see.
wow, never had that problem. I just found girl of my and now I'¨m going on a weekend to her.
I'¨m from Czech Republic and she is from Slovakia - and my parents have no problem with it.
I am allmost 16.
So, I don'¨t want to repeat other posts - but be your self and I personally think, it'¨s bit strange, that someone'¨s parrents are driving somebody'¨s dating.
Well it's not just about the simple matter of dating somebody. Before you do that, you need to make big decisions about the directions of your life. Do you want to be free of all the restrictions imposed on you by your parents? If so, you need somebody who can give you freedom with security, and who is committed. Anybody won't do as most people aren't up to the task of assisting people in their transformation from a restrictive life to a free life. You shouldn't date at all until that decision is made. If you choose the restrictive option, you need to ensure that the person you find is equally or similarly restricted, then the parents of both of you may get on and be able to help you pursue your relationship in a manor they find appropriate. It is important that your parents have similar values so they get on and can ensure that you both live according to their values. If however you wish to be free, you need to be able to know how determined the person you wish to date is to ensure you are free and secure. One way of doing this is by telling the person a brief history of your restricted life, and telling the person that you wish to change and be free but secure. You need to know that the person is responsible, so observe the person in social environments without letting the person know what you are observing. If the person fits the bill, then explain to the person that you wish to be in a relationship with the person. If the person also wants to be in a relationship with you the relationship may begin. But once in the relationship, you both need to plan for your new free life.
That's really great advice. Just be yourself and see where the relationship goes. As for your parents, you're 21 now. They have no right to grant or deny you permission to date. And I thought my parents were over-protective. Wow.
It is true that they don't have the right, but if they have the ability, and there is no significant challenge to them, they can impose their will. It would be good for the challenge to come in the form of a stable relationship. The stable relationship would be the best environment for Dqueen to transform herself from a restricted person into a free person, with the support of her partner, and people connected to him.